On Friday, my beautiful sister took her own life. I wish I had gotten more opportunities to tell her I loved her. I’m now trying to tell the people I care about that I love them as many times as I possibly can. Please, reach out, tell the people in your lives how much they mean to you. Say it as many times as you can. And for god sakes, if you are feeling depressed or know someone who is, seek help. Suicide is not the answer. Talk to friends, family or if you have no one else to turn to, call one of the many helplines:
1-800-SUICIDE / 1-800-784-2433
1-800-273-TALK / 1-800-273-8255
1-800-799-4TTY (4889) (Deaf Hotline)
#reblog this #reblog #important #love #help #advice #suicide #helplines #depression #depressed #sad
AAAAAA Goats are my favorite animals!!
I was neutral on goats but now I have seen the light
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here we go again ;)
20, androgynous female/genderqueer, bisexual, korean!
yay area <3
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"(TW: discussion of sex, fellatio in particular)I don’t feel that putting my mouth on someone’s cock is an inherently submissive thing to do. It can be, but everything in sex is about context." —
Mistress Matisse: The Politics of Blowjobs (via sexisnottheenemy)
One thing I long for more of is exploration of blowjobs as dominance and not submission. Our society really does color the act of giving the blowjob as submissive. In the English language we even say you are “giving” it as if you are the one who is surrendering the use of your mouth.
But honestly? Viewed from angle where the penis isn’t automatically the most powerful, potent thing in the world and a sign of dominance just by virtue of being a penis (thus associated with masculinity and manhood even though some women or non-binary folk have penises), it’s actually the other way around, I think.
A consenting blowjob is someone allowing their penis to be inside of your mouth. Your mouth. It’s someone giving over a very intimate and private part of their bodies to your oral ministrations - you can lick, suck, bite, nibble, nuzzle, stroke, kiss, tease. You can go slow or fast, but at that moment, you’re pretty much in possession of one of the most sensitive parts of that person’s body, and definitely one that has a lot of significance to them. How is that, outside of a context of overt and explicit domination (ie, a situation where one partner pleasures another is part of their submission to said partner) a submissive act all by itself?
Allowing a penis in someone else’s mouth in a consensual situation is a very trusting act. Yes, it’s also trust for the person owning the mouth to agree and want to use their mouth to create sensations on that penis (or even on the other parts of the genitals, scrotum or anus), but I mean, damn. You’re trusting that body part to someone else’s mouth knowing that if they break that trust, it is going to hurt. And bad.
The fact that so many penis owners go around giving their penises over to so many mouths thinking that it makes them the dominant one seems like the height of arrogance to me. I may be on my knees, but which one of us has full and unfettered access to the other’s most sensitive parts and can do all manner of things, pleasant or unpleasant to them, at that moment?
Explain to me again how that’s submissive?
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i love how subversive this is. i give blowjobs all the time. im good at it. lol
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I am literally going to explode here.
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Everything I would add has been said already. Perfect.
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#reblog #real talk #commentary #oral sex and empowerment
